personality

• ingilizcede kişilik
• altini çizmek gerekir ki personality gerçek değildir, roman ya da film kahramanidir, kisaca sallamadir... gerçek olsa person derdik yani...
• o'hagan'in türkce'deki ikinci romani...
• persona'dan türemiştir ve eski yunanca'da persona, "maske" anlamına gelir. şimdilerde "kişilik" anlamında kullanılması pek ilginç.
• etraftakilere sapık gibi görünmeden, üstü kapalı bir şekilde bir kadının memesinden veya götünden bahsederken kullanılan kelime.
  
  cümle içinde kullanımı şu şekildedir;
  - she has a great personality.
  + yeah, her personality is huge^*.
• 1957 yılına ait bir johnny mercer parçasıdır. kendisine fallout 4'te "classical radio" adlı istasyonda sıklıkla denk gelmek mümkündür. bir süre sonra kişinin diline takılır ve ritmi kolay kolay unutulamaz.
• "outward personality characterization aspect
  
  1. looking at someone’s habits and tastes to understand them
  2. how someone’s appearance and clothing are used as a form of expression
  3. analyzing how a person uses language
  4. correlations between taste in music and personality traits
  5. examining a person’s peer group to understand them
  
  there are many aspects of a person’s personality that you don’t know when you
  first meet them. however, there are aspects about them that they project whether
  they know it or not, such as their clothing choice or personal hygiene. by
  analyzing their belongings, clothing, use of language, and overall appearance
  you can gain an insight into who they are. you may also learn about them
  through the people they choose to interact with, observing their habits and taking
  note of their tastes in entertainment or social activities.
  
  what you see
  ımportant indicators about a person will leak out via their outward appearance.
  their hair styles, the clothes they wear, the choice to wear a certain perfume or
  cologne, or other personal grooming habits can be used to gain perspective about
  a person. many people use these methods of personal style to express
  themselves. keep in mind, though, they may be dressing a certain way to create
  an appearance or impression that may not be aligned with their true internal self.
  
  take the example of a young female headed to a job interview in an office with amostly male population. she may choose to wear a dark-colored pant suit and a
  blouse just low-cut enough to show a bit of cleavage. she may truly feel
  intimidated, but she wants to project that she is confident. some studies suggest
  that women who choose to hide their feminine assets (i.e. breasts or hips) are
  subconsciously expressing an insecurity in their femininity. on the other hand,
  women who are unafraid to show a little cleavage or wear tight-fitting clothing
  are expressing the fact that they don’t feel undermined by their gender.
  this is one example that demonstrates how difficult it can be to determine
  personality traits about a person based solely on their attire. other grooming
  habits may give a clearer and perhaps more accurate view of their internal
  aspects. for the most part, someone who has taken the time to appear clean and
  presentable and who wears appropriate fitting clothing demonstrates a certain
  level of self-confidence. the other side of that is when someone appears
  unkempt with unwashed hair and wears baggy or raggedy clothes probably has
  low self-esteem or lacks social awareness.
  
  because these types of observations are only visible, there are many other cues
  about a person to consider in conjunction with their appearance – for instance,
  body language or verbal communication. from the previous example of the wellgroomed, well-dressed person, it may be that they are highly insecure and they
  have spent much time and effort in creating their ideal appearance. conversely,
  the person who appears to be messy or unkempt may have high self-confidence
  but rejects the notion of accepting social cues about expectations and believe
  their appearance is not who they is as a person. yet another possibility exists – if
  a person appears unkempt but displays other aspects of having high self-esteem,
  it is possible that they ran out of the house in a hurry or that appearing this way
  is an ironic form of fashion-focused self-expression.
  
  what they listen to
  there is a multitude of studies that have been conducted about a person’s
  musical preference in relation to their personality. as you may have noticed by
  now, there is no “one size fits all” rule when it comes to determining
  characteristics of someone’s personality. below is a summary of a study
  conducted at heriot-watt university of 36,000 participants from all over the
  world:
  
  rap/hip-hop: correlates with being outgoing and having high selfesteem; despite stereotypes, there seemed to be no links to aggression or
  violence
  
  rock/heavy metal: another category that defied stereotypes, there seems
  to be no connection to violence or aggression with this musical preference.
  listeners tend to be creative, introverted, gentle, and have low self-esteem
  
  ındie: connections to creativity and intellect; also, linked to low selfesteem, passivity, and anxiety
  
  pop: fans of this genre tend to be honest, conventional, and extroverted
  with high self-esteem; some occurrences of less creativity
  
  country/western: correlates to conventional and outgoing personalities
  that are emotionally stable and hard-workingclassical: although listeners tend to be introverted, they have high selfesteem and are emotionally stable and comfortable in their own skin
  
  dance: connected with outgoing and assertive personalities
  
  jazz/blues: fans have high self-esteem and are extroverted, intelligent,
  and creative
  
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  habitual behaviors
  
  sow a thought, reap an action;
  sow an action, reap a habit;
  sow a habit, reap a character;
  sow a character, reap a destiny.
  - stephen r. covey
  
  a person’s habits will also reveal a great deal about their personality.
  volunteering may indicate that they are empathetic and generous. having pets
  could show they enjoy caring for others or that they don’t interact well with
  people or they are lonely. ıf they are heavily influenced by following a strict
  schedule, it could be an indicator of the desire to maintain control and may be
  caused by a lack of self-assurance. ıf someone prefers to spend most of their
  time socializing and prefers not to be alone they may feel the desire to selfvalidate. someone who spends very little time with others may lack selfconfidence or feel uncomfortable in the presence of others.
  
  also, consider the kinds of entertainment a person finds enjoyable: television
  shows, video games, websites, articles or books, blogs, or movies. consider the
  end result of the consumption of these sources of entertainment or how they
  might influence a person who regularly consumes media from various sources.
  the way a person views outcomes of their choices – whether positive or
  negative – can give insight into their perspectives.
  
  now combine their media consumption choices with their disposition. check out
  their twitter or facebook, who they follow, what they post, who their friends
  are, etc. many times, people will mirror their internal sentiments on an outward
  platform, especially if they spend an excessive amount of unconstructive time on
  these social media sites. maybe they are more comfortable with the illusion of
  anonymity these sites provide and are uncomfortable in face-to-face interactions
  because of low self-confidence. perhaps the reassurance of constant interaction
  with others soothes an internal need for contact.every little piece of information can be used to gather a whole image of a
  person. any of these aspects can be considered a habit if they expose themselves
  to it on a regular basis. participation in these activities can influence and form
  the thought processes a person may knowingly or unknowingly construct.
  
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  who they ınteract with
  
  perhaps one of the most definitive factors of a person’s internal characteristic is
  who they choose to associate with, influencing how they view themselves. just
  to reiterate, this is not an exact science – you would have to analyze each person
  in their social circle to draw more solid conclusions. however, a person’s friends
  will be yet more pieces of the puzzle of a person. a peer group can influence
  how a person makes decisions for themselves, as well as influence how others
  make their own decisions.
  
  consider a group of friends who regularly party and binge drink on the
  weekends – it is highly unlikely you will find someone in that group who is
  concerned with their health. studies have shown that how a person chooses their
  social circles is a highly complex interaction of many variables. there does seem
  to be four main contributing factors:
  
  1. convenience: how often people interact and physical proximity can be
  very influencing when associating with a group. ıt’s easier to be friends
  with someone just a few minutes up the road than someone who lives
  several hours away. ıt’s also easier to form a social bond with someone
  you see on a daily basis rather than every few weeks.
  
  2. reciprocal altruism: this consideration lies in what two people (or a
  group) can do for one another and how often it is reciprocated. ıt can be as
  simple as offering companionship or a friendship based on person one
  offering a higher social status association to person two, while person two
  offers kindness and generosity. ıt usually isn’t this basic, but
  understanding reciprocated altruism can determine what a person feels
  they lack and how they seek out those traits in others.
  
  3. similarities: generally, people become friends because of similar innate
  and existing characteristics, despite the fact they may have many other
  differences. there will always need to a common ground on which two
  people begin to interact and can establish a positive relationship.
  
  4. reinforcing perceptions: many times, a person forms a social bond with
  another person because that person will reinforce their perceptions of theworld. for example, friends may share certain morals or values or
  mindsets, and will often befriend someone who confirms their selfevaluation of their value as a person. this may be a subconscious
  attraction – people who are confident will seek those who support their
  confidence; conversely, someone who lacks self-value may be drawn to
  others who reinforce their lack of value. for instance, this is evident
  among women who are victims of domestic violence. they will continue
  to endure repeated abuse, feeling unable to leave the relationship because
  they have perhaps (subconsciously) validated their lack of self-worth and
  believe they deserve terrible treatment."